Rea Shahroudi Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

Creating space for intimacy, desire, and meaningful connection

Welcome to my psychosexual and relationship therapy practice. I help individuals and partnerships navigate sexual difficulties and stuck relationship patterns to create deeper connections and fulfilling intimate lives through specialised, integrative, relational therapy.

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Rea Shahroudi, psychosexual therapist in private practice

I’m Rea Shahroudi
Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

I am a member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT), trained with the London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy and work at the Homerton University Hospital Psychosexual team. I have also worked with charities such as NAZ project and Controlling Chemsex.

I understand intimacy and relationship challenges firsthand, and I bring that depth of insight into my work.

Who I help

I work with adults navigating intimacy and relationship challenges.

Having lived across different countries and cultures and navigated my own journey through intimacy and connection, I bring both professional training and lived experience to my practice.

I welcome people of all races, cultures, abilities, genders, sexualities, and relationship structures - including LGBTQIA+ individuals, those in consensual non-monogamous relationships, intercultural partnerships, and anyone exploring their sexual identity.

Sessions available in English, Farsi, and French

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I understand how trauma, life transitions, professional demands, parenthood, and bodily changes can impact our intimate lives. Whether you're working through these challenges individually or with a partner, I'm here to support you

Common challenges I support

Sexual
difficulties

such as low desire, pain during sex, erectile or ejaculatory concerns, orgasm difficulties, sexual anxiety, or compulsive sexual behaviour

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Relationship
patterns

where you feel stuck in cycles you didn't consciously choose, experiencing communication difficulties, conflict, or disconnection

Intimacy
challenges

including trust issues, infidelity, exploring attachment wounds and relational patterns, wanting to deepen emotional and physical connection or conscious separation

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Identity and
exploration

around sexual identity, desire, and what intimacy means to you

I understand how vulnerable it feels to reach out for support around these issues. My approach is non-judgmental, curious, sex positive and rooted in the belief that with openness to growth, transformation is possible

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How I work

I bring an integrative therapeutic approach, weaving together attachment theory, mindfulness, the mind-body connection, EFT (tapping), and principles from NLP coaching alongside psychosexual and relationship therapy.

I work relationally - which means the therapeutic relationship itself becomes a space where you can explore patterns, experience being truly heard, and discover new ways of relating and connecting.

Through this work, we move from impasse to a greater ability to reflect, express feelings, listen, negotiate, and make choices about how to be in a relationship.

I support clients in exploring their erotic templates

the unique patterns and preferences that shape desire - to help you define and own your sexuality in ways that feel authentic and fulfilling.

Having worked across NHS services and the charity sector, I understand the importance of creating a safe, compassionate space where you can bring your whole self.

I'm interested in how our experiences - including spirituality, cultural background, and life experiences and transitions - inform our capacity for intimacy and connection.

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At the moment, I offer online therapy onlyFees:
Individual therapy:
£80 per session
Relationship therapy:
£120 per session

Get in touch

I know that reaching out for support around intimacy and relationship concerns can feel daunting. I'm here to help.

Ready to take the first step?

Privacy Policy

I am the data controller responsible for your personal data. I am registered with the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO), registration number: 00011707315

This privacy policy explains what personal data I collect, how I use it, where I store it, and your rights under GDPR.

What Personal Data Do I Collect?

When you first contact me:

  • Name, email address, phone number, brief details of your enquiry

When you become a client:

  • Full name, date of birth, contact details

  • GP name and contact details

  • Emergency contact information

During therapy:

  • Brief session notes

  • Email and text correspondence

  • Appointment records

Why Do I Collect This Data?

  • To provide you with effective therapy

  • To manage appointments and communicate with you

  • To ensure your safety and wellbeing

  • To comply with professional standards (COSRT guidelines)

  • To discuss your case in clinical supervision (your identity is protected)

  • To maintain accurate records in line with insurance requirements

How Do I Store Your Data?

Digital storage:

  • Encrypted MacBook (password-protected)

  • Encrypted external hard drive backup

  • iPhone (Face ID and PIN-protected)

  • iCloud email and calendar (password-protected)

Online platforms:

  • Zoom / Google Meet (for remote sessions only - no data stored after sessions)

Security: All devices are stored securely and protected by encryption and passwords.

Data Sharing

I will not share your data without your consent, except when:

Required by law: Risk of serious harm, safeguarding concerns, court orders

Clinical supervision: Your case may be discussed (anonymously - first name/initials only)

Third-party services: iCloud (email/calendar), Zoom/Google Meet (video sessions), website analytics

All third-party services are GDPR-compliant.

Wherever possible, serious concerns will be discussed with you before any breach of confidentiality.

How Long Do I Keep Your Data?

Session notes: 7 years after therapy ends (COSRT guidelines)

Initial enquiry information: Deleted when therapy ends or if you don't proceed

All data: Permanently deleted after 7 years

Your Rights

You have the right to:

  1. Access your data - Request a copy of the data I hold about you

  2. Rectification - Correct inaccurate or incomplete data

  3. Erasure - Request deletion (subject to legal retention requirements)

  4. Data portability - Receive your data in a portable format

  5. Object - Object to processing in certain circumstances

  6. Complain - Lodge a complaint with the ICO or COSRT

To exercise any of these rights, contact me in writing. I will respond within one month.

Subject Access Requests

To request a copy of your data, please submit your request in writing. Each request will be considered individually in consultation with my professional body and insurers. There is no charge unless the request is excessive or unfounded.

Data Breaches

In the unlikely event of a data breach:

  • I will report it to the ICO within 72 hours if there is a risk to your rights

  • I will notify you directly if there is a high risk

  • I will keep a record of all breaches and actions taken

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Complaints

If you are unhappy with how I handle your data, you can complain to:

Information Commissioner's Office (ICO)

Tel: 0303 123 1113 | Website: www.ico.org.uk

College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT)

Website: www.cosrt.org.uk

Contact Me

If you have questions about this privacy policy:

Email: [email protected]

Last updated: February 2026

This privacy policy complies with the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) and UK data protection laws.

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